Honeymoon is over

I just get pointing now.  Get me this or that. Put that there.  Had my hair cut and got told I look like Camilla Parker Bowles!  I had to tell her she would be out on her ear if she continued and fortunately that brought a laugh.  Not quite killed each other yet.

Carers have been coming, but times are bad.  Late twice on the days mum goes to her club, so I have had to run back from work to wash and dress her and do all the other things that you need to do in the morning.  I am a wreck.  Carer turned up just as I had finished and just before the transport arrived.  Then lunch is getting later at 1.30pm, followed by tea at 4.00pm, then bed at 6.00pm – sounds familiar??  Have had a chat with the Agency and hopefully they will sort it out…..

 

Fresh start

Well we finally have a new Agency and they have been fantastic.  The carers have all been much younger and enthusiastic.  They all say they love their job and they all turn up.  The office even answer the phone when you ring them.  All a bit too good to be true, you must be thinking – yes well you are right in a way.

The first few days were perfect, but then it all started falling apart.  One carer tried to clean my mother’s personal areas with a multi surface disinfectant wipe!!  No carer seems to come twice (though that should change) so I have to repeatedly tell them where things are.  Most don’t have the key safe number and now the timekeeping is deteriorating.  Twice this week they have arrived too late in the morning and I have had to do the strip wash etc, otherwise she would have missed her day centre.  Then one day we had 3 carers in 4.5 hours!

But on the positive side, they do at least turn up, they are all very sweet and caring and the office staff actually answer the phone, so we can’t have everything.  I have hope though that they will sort it out eventually but mum is not so confident.  She rang them 4 times yesterday to complain and I bet they were regretting ever giving her their number!