Mum had a fall last night. She tried to use the commode and slipped off. It was only when my husband starting pushing me, that I realised that the loud ringing I could hear was her calling for help!
All the years I cared for my daughter, I seemed to sense in advance if she was ill. Even though she no longer lives with us, I still know when she is unwell. For some reason I just don’t hear my mum!! I have a video camera in the room with 2 way audio as well as a doorbell and I still don’t hear her.
Tonight she had to press the watch alarm. I just managed to get to the phone before they turned up. I forgot to tell them that mum was sleeping in the front room, so they are likely to bound up the stairs into our bedroom one night! Think I had better get that one sorted out early on.
It was a real struggle to pick her up. I didn’t want to ask my husband as he has been ill himself lately and also has a bad shoulder, but I thought I might have to. Mum knew to cross her arms, but it was only after a few unsuccessful attempts that I realised she was keeping her legs straight! No wonder I was struggling. I got her half up and we both fell on the bed. Eventually, after a lot of struggling, she managed to get into bed properly but they really should provide the family with training on how to lift someone.
Anyway thank goodness she was okay, but we seem to be going backwards. She was starting to manage in the night, but her leg has been playing up the last few days and she has been having trouble standing. Painkillers are not helping so it may be connected with her stroke – I have been reading about post stroke pain – and if it is that there is apparently not much they can do about it! Looks like we are back to some disturbed nights again.